Getting ready for your engagement photos can feel a bit overwhelming — but it doesn’t have to. We’re here to make sure your session is easy, fun, and totally authentic to your story as a couple. Whether you’re camera shy or already picturing your dream shoot, this guide will help you plan an engagement session that feels natural, relaxed, and actually enjoyable.
We’re Carly and Kasey from Drzazga Photo. Over the years, we’ve photographed couples all across the country—from mountain tops to city streets and quiet lakesides. The biggest lesson? The best photos come when you’re comfortable, connected, and just being yourselves.
Communicate Openly With Your Photographer
Your photographer isn’t just someone who shows up and clicks a button—they’re your partner in creating something meaningful. So talk openly.
- Share your vision. What kind of mood or vibe do you want? Candid and playful, moody and romantic, or bright and joyful? Got any spots or poses in mind? Tell us!
- Talk logistics. When works best for you? How long do you want to shoot? Any special needs or accessibility concerns? We’ll help plan a flow that’s chill and smooth.
- Timing is everything. The “golden hour” — right after sunrise or before sunset — is magic for light. But if that doesn’t work, no worries! We’ll find the best time to fit your schedule and location.
- Have a backup plan. Weather happens, and it’s totally normal. We’ll discuss options for rain or last-minute changes so you feel prepared.
Choose a Location That Speaks to You
Your location should feel like an extension of your story and your style.
- Pick what fits your vibe. Whether that’s your favorite hiking trail, an urban street corner, or somewhere meaningful to you both, it should feel real.
- We’re here to help. We’ve shot in tons of places and can recommend spots based on lighting, privacy, and how easy they are to get to.
- Think practical. Check parking, permits, and travel time — these small details can make a big difference.
- Variety is great. If you want, we can shoot at two nearby locations for different looks without eating up your whole day.
Coordinate Outfits That Feel Like You
Your clothes should feel comfortable and look cohesive without being forced.
- Choose colors that complement each other and the location. Soft neutrals, earth tones, or pops of color that fit the setting.
- Dress for comfort and style. Think about weather and terrain — flowing dresses for open fields, boots for hikes, or casual layers for city shots.
- Add personal touches. Hats, scarves, meaningful jewelry, or fun accessories that show your personality.
- Need outfit ideas? We’re happy to send over inspo boards and tips.
Prioritize Comfort and Confidence
You want to move, laugh, and be yourself without worrying about your clothes or hair.
- Choose outfits that let you move naturally. Avoid anything too tight or restrictive.
- Plan for the weather. Bring layers or options for warm or cool temps.
- Consider hair and makeup that make you feel good. Whether that’s a professional glam session or just your natural look — whatever makes you feel like you.
Be Authentically Yours
This is the best part—just being yourselves.
- Forget the “perfect” pose. The most genuine photos come when you’re relaxed and connected.
- Bring in your unique story. Maybe it’s a song, a favorite drink, or a special place that means something to you.
- Have fun with it! This is our time to hang out, get to know each other, and enjoy some quality time together before the wedding day hustle.
- It’s okay to be silly, tender, goofy, or quiet. We want to capture all of that — your real, beautiful connection.
Final Thoughts: We’ve Got Your Back
You’re not alone in this. We’re here to guide you every step of the way—from picking locations and suggesting outfits to calming nerves and making the whole experience something you’ll actually look forward to. Together, we’ll create photos that don’t just look beautiful but feel true to who you are.